THE SPICE OF RELATIONSHIP AND SEX LIFE

 

In a day in a life of every girl on a university campus somewhere someone is in a   relationship, or in love or being pressured to date or pressured to break up  . During my stay in the university dating a rich guy or man became a   must. Living a lavish lifestyle was the eish; if you didn’t have a bone straight wig , or a deep wavy curl wig , an iPhone, a boyfriend with a car or  someone who could afford to take you to big places you will be considered as living a boring or broke girl life. I wonder were all this pressure came from? Was it always there? well we will never know .

Anyway I just noticed I never introduced myself I’m Cylia Burns .I just completed the University of Ghana. Anyway back to what I was saying . University taught me the good, the bad, the ugly but with all this I had a lot of fun . Back in level hundred I was the only single one among my friend group, everyone was with either a man or a campus boy. Time passed and  my friends kept asking, Cylia are you always going to be single do you always want to manage just what your parents give you  and note my parents were well to do I wasn’t poor  but in university money is never enough . I was convinced about what my friends said. I started dating but my relationship started facing a challenge. 

     

One day, I visited a friend of mine Sandy and I told her about the challenges in my relationship, she shared a secret with me that “A good sex life is the spice of any relationship”, Sandy said, “it’s what keeps the love burning”.

 I realized that I neglected this aspect of my relationship. That night, I took matters in to my own hands at my boyfriend’s apartment. I prepared a romantic dinner, adorned myself with beautiful beads and wore a beautiful lingerie and waited for him. When he arrived, exhausted from a whole day class, seeing the set up I made, he was impressed and quickly took a shower and joined me to watch a romantic netflix movie whiles having dinner.

 During the movie I got closer to my boyfriend and I started to kiss and seduce him. He quickly understood that I wanted more than foreplay , he then asked me if I’m sure I wanted to go all the way and I said yes . He then carried me from where we were seated and placed me on the bed ,after a while of foreplay we had good sex. Since it was my first time it was a bit painful but it was still memorable. 

 

From that day on, we made time for each other, prioritizing sex life and communication. Our relationship blossomed and to me, I thought the love got stronger. We then had sex countless times after the first time, I could say I was even addicted  but I didn’t mind because my boyfriend loved to satisfy me.

After a year and half my boyfriend broke  up with me , I felt used I then noticed he never loved me. I came to my senses that I failed all my exams in both years so I got dropped out of school. After narrating my story to the counsellor, she then advised me to prioritize time on education more than my social life.

Moral Lesson :

Staying focused is the ultimate goal to success.